“The
glory of great men should always be measured
by the means they have
used to acquire it.”
- La Rochefoucauld
Communications has come
so far over
the years. In less than a split second, we can send emails to thirty
different people around the world and everyone will receive the same
data. Yet the most difficult challenge that can cost organizations
thousands if not millions of dollars is still miscommunication in
interpersonal exchanges. It’s amazing that this one area has
not
changed in thousands of years. One could say to a group,
“Think
of a whale.” Everyone in the room will have a different
vision of
a whale in their mind’s eye. Similarly, the occasion for a
misunderstanding can occur easily when someone is sharing an idea or
giving an assignment.
A lack of loyalty and connection to an organization can develop if
people feel misunderstood or not valued. This can result in turnover
and the loss of top talent. We are often contacted by individuals who
have graduated from top schools, have a good job history, and are
looking for career guidance. When they are asked why they are looking
to leave their current position, we usually hear that they do not feel
valued, engaged, or appreciated. They are typically high-level
performers, and the loss to their employers is costly. If organizations
take time to simply manage individuals according to their needs rather
than just treating them like a mechanical part, then these star
performers probably would not have the need to look for other
opportunities.
Each of us is a valuable part of the whole, and we need to develop an
empathic company culture in order to open lines of communication for
creative contribution. That leads to engagement of ideas and respect so
individuals feel that they can participate in a vision. Developing a
supportive environment that encourages mentoring will create
opportunities for knowledge to be shared with the various generations.
Additionally, this provides a creative foundation for new and exciting
processes, products, and services.
Cracking
the
Interpersonal Communication Code
But where to begin? How do we crack the interpersonal
communication code? First, include others on your team or in your
department in the discussion and ask the following questions:
- What is an
area of your interpersonal communication that is not working as well as
you would like?
- Have you seen
this come up before? Give an example.
- What would the
ideal outcome look like?
- What are you
doing that is not working?
- What are you
doing that is working?

Next, analyze the answers and
look for patterns. Now you can start to
develop an action plan. Be sure to utilize information from an in-depth
work style and personality assessment as described in Chapter 5 that
provides the eight ways to gain true insight into personality. This
knowledge will illuminate a more effective way to communicate,
encourage greater engagement of individuals, and contribute to creating
respect, loyalty, and appreciation. The end results: enhanced
retention, performance, and positive word of mouth for attracting top
talent.
Over the next 10 to 30 years, finding qualified people is going to get
more difficult with a predominantly maturing population. Retention of
top people will be more important than ever, and positioning your
organization for recruitment purposes is vital. People talk and
reputations get developed very quickly through the Internet and word of
mouth. How your organization communicates within itself is a good
indication of how it communicates to the outside world. Putting people
in the “right” position will lead to greater job
satisfaction and success.
We knew one organization that placed a very high performing accounting
coordinator into a sales role. This person was very unhappy and ended
up leaving the company. If they would have simply recognized the skills
and desires of the individual, they would not have lost a top
performer. If someone is a troubleshooter, let them troubleshoot. If
someone is in need of a process then strive to provide that for them.
If someone is very creative then tap into it; otherwise, they could
feel unchallenged and bored. When we strive to understand
people’s strengths and manage accordingly, we then set them
up
for success. Use the information you gathered during the interview
process, reference checking, and an in-depth work style and personality
assessment to gain deeper insight for how to effectively work together.
A
Success Story
One final story. An organization with a customer service department was
not meeting the volume level they had set for inbound calls. The
manager blamed the reps and identified them as “C”
players.
Later, this manager was placed in a different department and a new
manager was brought in. This person sat down with each individual and
then with the whole group. The manager utilized information collected
from in-depth work style and personality assessments of the team to
understand the team members.
As a team, they discovered that within twenty-four hours of delivery,
calls were coming in to inquire about the
time of the delivery and
additional questions about the product. The team brainstormed ideas of
how to reduce the inbound questions so that they could take new order
calls. Together they came up with a simple idea of providing updates to
the customer regarding the delivery as well as creating an information
page for the typical product/delivery questions. The call volume
changed dramatically. The team members were later asked why these ideas
had not been suggested in the past. The response was very
simple—no one had ever asked them. They had been reprimanded
for
lack of performance rather then asking for their input in order to
solve the problem. The results were improved productivity, performance,
and job satisfaction, since they now had an environment that invited
participation and teamwork.
Discover
Your
Leadership Style
To find out what your leadership style is, you can take a quick
leadership assessment by clicking on this link:
http://www.crackingthepersonalitycode.com/LeadershipTest.php
It is a very helpful tool for managers, supervisors and team members to
complete and discuss with their team.
Action
Items
The
following are
some action items to consider:
- Contact Lighthouse Consulting
Services, LLC to learn how you can use
an in-depth work style and personality assessment for the hiring
process, staff development, and personal growth (www.lighthouseconsulting.com).
- Utilize the information gathered
from in-depth work style and
personality assessments to manage more effectively. This will in turn
reduce the learning curve for on-boarding and help to better understand
the individuals that you work with.
- Place yourself and others in
positions that take advantage of
strengths to ensure success.
- Be clear with expectations,
listen carefully and paraphrase when
something seems to be an obstacle for the person.
- Take the time to mentor people
to succeed through empathic
understanding of how they might approach an opportunity or challenge,
and work together to build a common bridge. You can learn more about
in-depth work style and personality assessments and how to incorporate
them into a hiring and staff development process for your organization
by visiting our website, www.lighthouseconsulting.com.
There you can sign up for our Keeping on Track publication that
provides monthly proactive articles.
Permission
is
needed from Lighthouse Consulting Services, LLC to reproduce any
portion provided in this article. © 2009
Dana Borowka, MA, CEO and Ellen Borowka, MA, COO of Lighthouse
Consulting Services, LLC have over 25 years experience in the area of
business and human behavioral consulting. They have been
helping
organizations both nationally and internationally in raising the hiring
bar through using in-depth work style assessments. They are
nationally renowned speakers and radio personalities on this
topic. They have built a well recognized organization that
provides expert interpretation of in-depth work style assessments
during the hiring process, providing a variety of workshops and
assisting those with communication challenges. They are
authors
of the book, “Cracking
the
Personality Code”. To order the book,
please go to www.crackingthepersonalitycode.com.
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