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employees who are “problem children” are not problems
because they can’t do the job or don’t have the technical
skills. Most problem people are lacking the softer interpersonal
and communication skills. Take for example, Eddie. Eddie
manages a staff of about twelve project engineers for a high-tech
company. These engineers are senior technical people who are
highly-educated, bright and hardworking; and they all have one other
thing in common – they dislike working for Eddie. While
Eddie is respected on a technical level by all who work with him, his
rudeness, insensitivity and lack of interpersonal skills are often
discussed openly by his coworkers and staff. “If we could
only put him in a room by himself and let him design…” is
a common sentiment among his co-workers. Unfortunately, no one
has told Eddie about his offending behavior directly…
Greg is a construction supervisor who had outstanding capabilities as a
hands-on crew member. He could build or repair any construction
problem; plumbing, drywall, carpentry, electrical and more! So,
as a direct result of his superior hands-on skills, he was promoted to
become the supervisor of a large work crew. Unfortunately, he is
not thriving in his new role. Not only is he not a capable
supervisor, Eddie doesn’t enjoy the new responsibilities and his
staff does not respect or want him as their
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leader. How can he “save face” and stay with the
company? Eddie knows he’s failing, but his boss has
never brought the issue up with him…
Or let’s look at Susan. Susan is a teller in a busy bank.
She works with 4 other tellers, but is so caustic in her dealings with
co-workers they avoid her. She never smiles, greets her coworkers
with a “Good Morning” or “Good Evening”, is
cutting and sarcastic when she does speak with them, and doesn’t
have a kind word to say to anyone but her customers. If only she
could treat her coworkers with the same respect. Although she is
an effective teller, her lack of interaction with the rest of the
workgroup is beginning to affect her performance. She is often out of
the loop with important issues because no one wants to speak with her
if they can avoid it. This will likely escalate, and Susan
doesn’t even know about the real problem….
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